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Stefanie Bullock relationship counsellor takapuna and titirangi auckland Stefanie Bullock MNZAC

Effective and solution-focussed
Counselling and Therapy at competitive rates
for Couples, Individuals, and Teens (11 and older).

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Stefanie has not only been a great help with issues in my personal life and relationship with my husband, but also my professional development.  She has been a wonderful supervisor whilst I have been training as a therapist and has supported me in finding my niche as a professional. She never lost faith in my abilities, even when at times, I did.  My career has now got off to an amazing start because Stefanie helped me to find the confidence to go for, and get the job I really wanted. 
Rosi H.

"It has been amazing and the only thing that has helped me and kept me going in a very complex situation. Stef is extremeley skilled and also has the energetic personality which gives me inspiration and hope to keep continuing on despite how hard it is to act wisely and not act reactively. I have a young daughter and no family supprt really in nz and depite my clinical 'knowledge' real life in my situation is so difficult and I am greatful and appreciative beyond words. Many Thanks to Stef. You have been one of many angels who have helped me live again."
Amy Whisters

"I have turned my life around with my daughter since getting the help we needed from Stef, fabulous counsellor. Will keep in touch with her when the help is needed."
Kath Andrews with Lilly (11 y)

"Its has been great to talk about what I was going through in a comfortable place with a lovely person, who is very patient, understanding and thoughtful."
Berverley Wood

"Helped me deal with my anger and feelings. I know now I am worth something and don't need people or substances to make things better. Learnt to talk to people and stopped being so stubborn."
Ngairi Tupai

"Working with Stef was like being on a Marae, I can say what is really going and how I really feel and Stef never judges me. Boy this creates change! :)"
Waarimu Beth Hokitaia

“My husband and I have worked with Stefanie for the past year (Aug 2014 – Aug 2015).  It has been a long road, but it has been well worth the effort.  There were times when things got very difficult and it was hard to go on, but we have been very committed and determined to make our relationship work.  Stefanie has been the only counsellor that we have ever seen who truly “got” what was going on for us.  She has been extremely patient and understanding.  Stefanie helped us to resolve past issues and showed us how to communicate with each other in a much clearer and calm way.  Our sex life which was virtually non-existent for many years, has now also returned and as a consequence we both feel much happier and closer to each other.  We cannot thank her enough, she has been fabulous to work with, and will keep in touch with her in case we ever need her again.  We would highly recommend her”
Elisabeth and Desmond D. 

I specialise in working with adults, couples, and teenagers.

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  • Member NZ Association of Counsellors (MNZAC)
  • Bachelor of Arts (Social Work)
  • Pos tGraduate Diploma in Couples and Relationship Therapy
  • Diploma in Couples & Family Therapy
  • Diploma in Counselling
  • Certificate in Expressive Arts Therapy
  • Certificate in Sandplay Therapy
  • Certificate in Supervision

​I have over 20 years experience working in the health field.



Since 1992 I have worked in the helping professions in a range of counselling and social work roles with people dealing with:
  • Assertiveness
  • Social Justice issues
  • Power relations
  • Relationship issues
  • Parenting issues
  • Interpersonal relationship conflicts
  • Separation / Divorce
  • Work-family balance
  • Stress management / relaxation
  • Anger management
  • Depression
  • Self development
  • Historical child abuse
  • Self esteem issues
  • PTSD
  • Women's issues
  • Gay and Lesbian issues


Working with Stefanie
was life changing.

Things are easier now.
I'm happier, more content,
more in contact with
what I want to be doing
and how to get there.

Jenni B.
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In my practise I use a range of approaches to counselling and therapy including:
  • Couples Therapy
  • Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)
  • Counselling (Rogers and TA)
  • Expressive Arts Therapy: painting , drawing, voice, body sculpturing, drama, creative writing
  • Drama Therapy and Role Dialogue
  • Sand Tray Therapy, especially the Gestalt approach
  • Relaxation methods and breathing techniques
  • Psycho-education especially domestic violence and assertive communication strategies
  • Narrative Therapy
I will always keep you and your goals at the heart of the treatment process, and use my knowledge of these to build a road map to the treatment approach. My experience and training with a wide variety of methods allows me to choose an approach you will feel comfortable with.

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Supervision of Health Professionals

I offer professional supervision to health professionals. I provide a unique and non-judgemental space that allows for new insights into your case work. I will support you finding ways to incorporate these into your counselling and social work practise.

Please contact me for my rates.
I am available during weekdays and for after hours appointments. Please contact me to arrange a time that suits.



I am fluent in both English and Deutsch (German) and happy to offer counselling/therapy in either language.



$150 for couples
$135 for adults
$120 for teens
$120 for Professional supervision
The Soul Centre
18 Huia Road
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Ph (09) 817 3051
The Richardson Center
431 Lake Road
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Online counselling for individuals and couples is also available via Skype.

Contact Stefanie Bullock

M.   022 070 0104 
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