Selina Reid

Psychotherapy and Counselling for Individuals and Relationships - online


Selina provides a confidential, non-judgemental place where you can bring life concerns and challenges. She values your knowledge and life wisdom and works with you toward sustainable and life-giving change. Individual and relationship sessions are available.

Selina is registered with the Psychotherapy Board of Aotearoa New Zealand and the New Zealand Association of Counsellors. She is a Certified Psychodramatist and has been working in the field of emotional and psychological distress for over 25 years, with people of diverse backgrounds, cultures and gender identities, and covering a wide range of issues.



Psychotherapy and counselling conversations open space for awareness and reflection. They provide opportunities for inquiry and the exploration of all areas of life; to assist understanding, integration and the development of new responses in familiar and/or challenging situations.

Selina works with you to clarify the areas you want to focus on. She works in the here-and-now, with current experience, future goals and historical moments and events. Selina may assist you to investigate thoughts, beliefs and values that are influencing your ability to live the life you want. The first few sessions provide an opportunity to see what the next steps might be and whether a referral elsewhere might be useful.



Trauma, neglect and abuse, either recent or past, can have long-lasting effects in a person’s life, including: loss of self-esteem, depression, anxiety, reduced sense of safety, nightmares, flashbacks, hyper-arousal, PTSD symptoms, sudden anger, sexual difficulties, confusion and isolation. Conversations can assist people to reclaim life and hope.

Selina has worked in the area of trauma, including sexual trauma, for the last 25 years.



Parenting can be a challenge at the best of times. When we are stressed or upset, it can be even harder to parent the way we want. Guilt and shame can build up about how we are feeling and behaving toward our children. Selina provides a confidential and supportive place for parents to look at what’s happening and to develop skills to understand and manage stress and anger. Learning different ways of responding to the frustrations of day-to-day parenting can give choice and a positive way forward.



Relationships can be intensely rewarding and also intensely painful. Psychotherapy and Counselling provides a stable, neutral place to explore many different relational areas, such as:

  • communication and boundaries
  • transitions and separation
  • new relationships
  • parenting challenges
  • differences of values, culture, spiritual understanding
  • sexual difficulties
  • separation
  • mental health concerns
  • supporting others through challenges



Selina has worked in both private practice and NGO settings for over 25 years. She has worked for a variety of organisations, including Employment Assistance, Rape Crisis, Parents and Anger, Ethics, and Older Person Counselling. She has held Clinical Manager, Manager, Committee and Board of Trustee roles. She has been Regional President of AANZPA Northern and is currently  a member of the AANZPA Executive.

Selina has trained in a range of modalities, including emotionally focussed relationship therapy, psychodrama, transactional analysis, narrative practice and mindfulness.

Selina enjoys the country peace of living in Kihikihi near to extended family.


Q Registrations and Memberships

- Registered Psychotherapist
- Registered with NZ Association of Counsellors
- Member of Australia Aotearoa NZ Psychodrama Association

Q Qualifications

- Certified Psychodramatist
- Diploma in Counselling
- Certificate in Group Work
- Diploma in Secondary Teaching
- Bachelor of Physical Education

Q Appointments

- Monday from 11:15am – 8:30pm
- Tuesday from 9:00am – 8:30pm
- Friday from 10:00am – 4:30pm
- Other times available on request

Q Fees

- Fees are $80 unwaged and between $110 and $130 for waged per hour.
- Payment can be made by internet banking.
- If you are receiving a WINZ benefit, you may be eligible for a subsidy through the WINZ Disabililty Allowance.

Q Confidentiality

Psychotherapy and counselling sessions are confidential, within the limits of supervision requirements and an immediate concern about someone’s safety.

Selina’s work is bound by the Code of Ethics for the Psychotherapy Board of Aotearoa New Zealand, the Australia Aotearoa New Zealand Psychodrama Association and the New Zealand Association of Counsellors. You can contact these associations if you have any concerns.